How to Use Personality Tests

A personality test for couples: start a conversation, not a compatibility score

A couples personality test can give you something specific to discuss. OpenJung shows two individual preference profiles, not a score for your relationship. Both people should choose whether to take part and what to share.

Start the couples test

How to take the test together

Use one device. The first person answers 32 questions, then passes the device to the second person for another 32. Allow about 15–20 minutes altogether; there is no time limit. Names are optional. Answer for yourself rather than how you think your partner would describe you.

After both finish, reveal the types and open the two individual results. Answering and viewing results are free, with no account or email required. You can also take the individual test separately if sharing a device is uncomfortable.

Take the individual test instead

Two results are not a relationship verdict

Compare the E/I, S/N, T/F and J/P scores before the four-letter labels. The percentages locate each person on a preference scale; they are not percentages of compatibility, love or likely relationship success.

The same letters do not establish shared values. Different letters do not prove conflict or complementarity. These OEJTS-adapted results are not the official MBTI assessment, a diagnosis or a basis for deciding whether to stay together.

Check the assessment evidence and limits

Discuss one real situation

Try a recent example, such as planning a weekend. Each person can answer: What happened? What did I need? What did I assume about you? Let the other person describe their experience before explaining it with a type.

An optional next step is one small agreement: for example, decide together when to make the plan and which parts can stay open. Try it once, then ask what helped and what did not. This is an editorial conversation suggestion, not a validated relationship intervention or a prediction based on your types.

Agree before sharing names or results

Progress is saved in this browser, so consider who else uses the device. A result link contains both scores and any names you entered. Anyone who has that link can read it. Leave names blank if you do not want them in the link, and get both people’s agreement before sharing.

Scoring runs on your device. Research contribution and optional usage sharing default to off. Basic Google Analytics defaults to on and can be turned off; personal scores and names are not sent to it. No registration does not mean no analytics.

Review your privacy choices